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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Hello jess, I agree with the 2 post, You don,t say if children are involved ?. Whats making you feel unsecure ?
Have you discussed this to anyone else {including the brother} ?. Personally the brother seems a real low life, What happened to the saying Blood is thicker than Water.
You need to take a BIG step back, Take a look in the mirror, decide what direction you want to take in life, I,m not saying you can,t have a relationship with your brother {Yes i am}, But to Quote the S**t WILL HIT THE FAN, is an understatement.
I can,t help but feel your totally confused, you need to get some sort of help asap, if your marriage can,t be saved {sorry} so be it, but the answer is not his Brother.
Ps, i feel your husband must of really of P****d you off at some point as he will see this as the ultimate INSULT
hope you can work things out
Jess, I know some people who went through that. It went too far and they had an affair. The affair ended, and the marriage survived (I do not know how). But, all their family and friends know about it, and although this was years ago, it still comes up in conversation (behind their backs) from time to time. It is not something that's likely to be forgotten.
Get out of the brother's arms.
this doesnt make you a horrible person it just means ur uncertain on some things.you need to ask your self the question 'do i love my husband?' 'do i want to be with him?' if the answers yes then stick with it and battle through it all maybe tell him ur feeling insecure hes likely to re asuure you and if things still dont work out then atleast u can say uve given it a go and youll never regret anything. if the answers no then theres no point hanging around but going straight to the brother probally isnt the best thing to do you should take some time out maybe have a holiday and see how things lie then but no one will evr thank you for what could be breaking up a family. its your decision but just remmber this desicion will change your life. good luck!