Re building your life

[lil123]

Hi as anyone had to re build their life again after divorce or some other devastating event?
I am trying to but having a really hard time at the moment any inspiration would be most welcome xx

[cruella]

lil
I forgot to add, you forget you HAVE already started to build a new life for yourself and your child.
You are doing great.
Just hang in there. Things will get better, but give yourself a pat on the back for what you have already achieved. Quite a lot I would say!

[figure]

This may sound a bit harsh in your vulnerable situation. But, the sooner you tell yourself you have control of your situation, and start the ball rolling, life in general will turn around for the better for you.

Set a goal and work towards achieving it. Let that be your focus. All the best. xx

[smudge]

Just popped in to say I'm very sorry to hear about your husband Megan, I had no idea. It must have been awful for you & your daughter, even though she was only a toddler at the time. Thinking of you. -xx-

I do hope you get through your problems lil & wish you all the very best too -xx-

[megan07]

Awwww smudge thank you my love, yes it was a bad time, just a few weeks after he died i had my gall-bladder removed, 1981 it was a bad year.
Hope the family are keeping well smudge, lots of love, and a big hug, megan. xxxxxxx

[Drisgirl]

Im so sorry I didnt come back here last night.

lil -EMail anytime [email protected] and i'll give you my number so even in the dead of night -i'll sincerely be here for ya hunxxx

Pleasedont leave here -just spill it out because as you can see there is always someone here for you -all the kind people on here have been my salvation and are now trued friends.

Its not all flippancy and B/S on here -we always help our own xxxx

Ray -loopy -i'll loopy ya xx

Ta Icey x

Finally Megan my wee sweetie -I had no idea -that is awful -what a dreadful thing to happen to you - wee gem -luv ya xxxx.