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About a month ago, a friend of mine set me up with a friend and this guy is actually quite a nice guy; he seems fun, kind, and a warm person. However, we have not met yet, despite him saying that he thinks I'm really nice, really cute, and also saying "I must meet you!"
The last time we spoke was via text over 2 weeks ago after asking him if I could meet him (there was a bit of a gap of speaking prior to this point also) and he said he couldn't yet we texted for most of the day. The problem is that he doesn't tend to reply to messages on Facebook and he doesn't (or at least hasn't) replied to me when he's come on to Facebook Chat. It could be said that he's busy but he makes time for his other friends yet surely if he wanted to meet me he would make the effort to try talking to me, either starting the conversations (which used to be the case) or replying. I feel like I'm doing all the leg work, particularly as I haven't spoken to him for a while in an attempt to see if he'll talk. There's been no response.
What do I do? He did wish me a happy birthday around the last minute and said "Loveyouuuu!!" with ten kisses (which, to me, sounds almost like a joke). I'm just utterly confused.
The last time we spoke was via text over 2 weeks ago after asking him if I could meet him (there was a bit of a gap of speaking prior to this point also) and he said he couldn't yet we texted for most of the day. The problem is that he doesn't tend to reply to messages on Facebook and he doesn't (or at least hasn't) replied to me when he's come on to Facebook Chat. It could be said that he's busy but he makes time for his other friends yet surely if he wanted to meet me he would make the effort to try talking to me, either starting the conversations (which used to be the case) or replying. I feel like I'm doing all the leg work, particularly as I haven't spoken to him for a while in an attempt to see if he'll talk. There's been no response.
What do I do? He did wish me a happy birthday around the last minute and said "Loveyouuuu!!" with ten kisses (which, to me, sounds almost like a joke). I'm just utterly confused.
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I have Facebook running in the background half the time, ignore chat requests, and have a tendency not to call my mother back. It doesn't mean I don't care it just means I'm male. Try the blunt approach before you give up. "Hey, are you taking me to lunch or what?"
The last sounded like he was drunk and wishes you a happy birthday.
The last sounded like he was drunk and wishes you a happy birthday.
He is gay but I forgot to mention that I'm a gay guy also.
Oh, we're teenagers so marriage is not the case, but maybe he isn't interested. That's the conclusion I had came to already but some of my friends just say "But maybe he's busy." I guess I will have to move on, a shame because things seemed to be fine in the beginning and I was genuinely excited to get to know him but, as anything, I guess it wouldn't last for long.
Oh, we're teenagers so marriage is not the case, but maybe he isn't interested. That's the conclusion I had came to already but some of my friends just say "But maybe he's busy." I guess I will have to move on, a shame because things seemed to be fine in the beginning and I was genuinely excited to get to know him but, as anything, I guess it wouldn't last for long.
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