What Is This Friend Like?

[abbeylee90]

I decided to make a new thread about the one that doesn't bother with me since she moved in with her partner.

The other day I seen her down the dogs home while she was working and they gave us a duo she then asked to see if they will walk on thier own which I said they like to be together all the time, I don't think she was happy. I keep thinking I'm going off her we were very close I use to tell her everything.

[naomi24]

I think abbey wants the friend to care and feels hurt that she doesn't... but I might be wrong.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you obviously care far, far more about the 'relationship' with your friend - and that's a waste of time as it's what, about two years since the friend was last a 'real' friend? Why do you think it's worth discussing? Wouldn't you be better concentrating on the friends you do have and/or making some new ones?

Naomi, I think you're right, but Abbey seems very unwilling to face reality. She's asking ABers 'What is this friend like?' -I'm not sure what she'd like us to say (that hasn't been said before).

[scorpiojo]

Move on, Abbey.

[naomi24]

I would like to know if abbey agrees with me.  I might be reading this wrong.

[abbeylee90]

Only until beginning of the year she bothered with me now it's only through my other friend really.

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey. Do you, as Naomi asked, want the friend to care about you, do you feel hurt that she doesn't? From your comment at 07.49 yesterday, the friend doesn't sound particularly nice anyway!

[abbeylee90]

This friend I'm talking about or ther one?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, at the time  it was the friend who doesn't bother with you that was being discussed. Do you want her to care about you, are you hurt that she doesn't bother? (And re-reading what you wrote about her on Thursday morning, I honestly don't know why you're giving her somuch time and thought!)

[abbeylee90]

Hurt but not bothered.

[Neveracrossword]

Good, Abbey, maybe you'll move on now? She really isn't worth spending too much of your time on!

PS We couldn't really ever answer your question - all we know about the friend is the stuff you've told us, so we'd just be repeating it all back to you!