Hi sophie_1003, I have been wearing soft monthly contact lenses from SS for a few years now. You will soon get used to them, but don't push your finger onto your eye when putting them in or taking them out. Always be very gentle. I leave my lenses in a cleaning solution over night. I put a drop of saline onto each lens just before placing it onto my pupil, which allows the lens to adhere to my pupil more easily, as the saline touches the eye first rather than the lens. This way I don't have any discomfort or soreness. I leave mine in all day. Hope you get used to them soon. Best wishes.