This was a mother who drank very, very heavily throughout pregnancy and was warned of the risks as far as I can glean. I can see no harm in the occasional drink in pregnancy, I had the odd beer or glass of wine and my babies were fine. When I was pregnant I was even told I could smoke as long as I kept the ciggies to below 10 a day (I gave up smoking, it was easier) but since you didn't find out if you were pregnant for several months in those days any harm would already have been done. It's o.t.t. to say no alcohol for 9 months - or more if you breast-feed-IMO.