Thanks for all the replies. It's very encouraging. I'm not going to say anything about any mods. I've made my feelings known to
Ab Editor. This all centres around something I said about a bereaved contributor to this site. I didn't think it was wrong in any way, but bereavement is treated differently by some people and what I said was taken in the wrong way. If the people involved could have heard me speaking, they wouldn't have felt that way. I'm convinced of that, but this shows how unfeeling and cold some thinks can appear when in writing. And I am certainly not a cold and unfeeling person. I'm a pussycat!!