jj - I didn't think my answer was that stern, and the fact whether I know you or not doesn't come in to it. You are welcome to be stern with me if you feel I am having a go at someone unfairly.
But now you have admitted you worded the piece concerned wrongly and wasn't having a go at a fellow ABer, that's the end of it. All's well that ends well. No grudges from me.
However, your request to me to stay clear of your posts - sorry no can do! I can't censor myself to avoid any of them, I don't want to miss anything of interest you might say.
I hope we're friends now! I apologise if you felt I was too harsh with you.