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Hillie - the cat came to live with me on a Thursday night, she was beautiful - all black. She had been living in a run in a village for about a year (Cats Protection) and I live in a city centre. She refused to eat, which was really out of character and stayed behind the sofa in the spare room.
By the Sunday it was obvious it was not working, but I was really willing to give it a go (my last cat took weeks to settle down). But the CP woman and her husband were really upset at losing her and they could offer her a quieter life. They had an extra big run in the garden, with a wendy house in it and other cats for her to interact with.
So she went home to them on the Sunday afternoon. I was gutted at losing her, relieved at no longer having to worry about her and felt like a bit of a failure for not being able to help her.
I have decided to do some house renovations and then I am going to get in touch with them again, a nice laid back tom cat (minus the 'bits') would do me. Somebody who is just looking for food and TLC.
I would actually, in a perfect world, prefer a dog - but I am on my own which means that I and only me would be responsible for EVERY walk - much better when you have somebody to share the chores. Dogs are great, cats have character!
Susan