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Just an update - the little one is now scoffing mushed up Whiskas and formula milk at all mealtimes and bottles are a thing of the past. I know what you mean about helping the tiny ones to pee and poo - but at least when you do that, you get it cleaned up straight away and you know there will be no more until next time you appear with the cotton wool!
I have bottle reared several kittens this year - but this is the first time that I have bottle fed one that has been reluctant to be weaned. It has been very sad this year, because I reared one litter of five whose Mum died when they were a few days old. We found her very sick in a car park, saw that she was feeding and followed her to the kittens, hidden under a fallen plank. These little ones somehow escaped contracting the FIV and FELV that killed their mother, but they have Calici Virus, poor wee mites. But they are likely to survive, now that the worst is over (they are five months now). Also, one little one found abandoned beside the road (about three weeks old), and a little survivor of a fire that killed three others in the litter. Hopefully, these latest two are the last for this year.
Thanks everyone for your help and encouragement - you may be hearing from me again.
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