Hello,
Your rabbit is trying to be the dominant force in your home, which is why he is pooing and weeing outwith the area he's meant to, he's trying his luck basically. My rabbit has an area in his hutch where he does his business, but I also bought a cat litter tray for when he has free reign. Each time he did a poo, I scooped them up and put them in the tray, it took a few weeks but he eventually 'got it' that this was where he was meant to do it. Also, when he DID start to use the tray I praised him verbally and gave him a choccy button for being a good boy (the bunny safe chocs you get at the pet shop). Bunnies aren't daft, he knew that the reward was great for using the tray.
As for the kicking when he is lifted, as a general rule, bunnies do not like being lifted at all. If you really have to lift him, the best method I find is to use the whole of the inside of my forearm to lift him, making sure that my elbows are effectively locking his hind legs and bum backed into my stomach. This appeases him until I get him to where I need him to be. I hope my description of lifting him makes sense LOL.
If you want to stop the spraying, getting him neutured is the best option for you, he's in and out in a day and will cost around �50/�60, this should help with him trying to be the dominant party too.
I hope this helps and I hope you get to read this reply after so long.