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Old men coming back with Thai Brides aged 18
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.If a person is attracted to someone under the age of 16 by virtue of the fact that they are a child, this person is a paedophile. If they are attracted not to such a person, but someone over 16, they are not a paedophile. You cannot be 'bordering' on paedophilia just because someone's normal courting group would be in their 70's, making an 18 year old relatively young.
It may look odd, but it is not sick.
What is a regular partnership, anyhow? Mutual exchange of goods....within the sphere of a loving relationship.
Did you read this in the Mail?
If I read between the lines, you perhaps seem to be suggesting that there is some sort of element of coercion going on here, but you have no way of knowing if that is the case. It certainly may happen, in which case we can probably agree that is morally murky (depending on the nature of the coercion - for some it might be a financial driver, being able to send back money to dependants. If the bride has been forced into marriage, that's something else entirely and there are laws that cover it). We may not like the idea of marriage based purely on financial advantage, but let's be honest; it wouldn't be the first time a marriage has been driven by such considerations.
This is not a new thing..... years ago in times gone by, usually, girls were married by the age of 14 or 16 to men at least in the early 30s possibly older. Marriages were arranged when the daughter was born to a man who was 'worthy'. She was kept and brought up to understand that this was her fate. It wasn't all abusive, but it was nearly always because it was a smart match and for financial gain.
Have younot read P&P? "A Man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife"?????? Women, do marry for security and healt/wealth, for a good place to bring up their kids. Even subconsciously, when we choose the more modern method of choosing our husbands, we are calculating in our brains whether he will be healthy/strong/a good provider, in other words, what can he offer me?
It is a modern phenomenom of choosing your partner yourself and them being in your own peer group.
dom - What do you care? They are both adults - and you can't control them.
Your post just sounds like a knee-jerk, squeamish reaction, judging by phrases like 'bordering on paedophilia' - which makes no sense
It is not a case of it being 'allowed' - there is no laws broken so there nothing anyone can do even if they wanted to .
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