and now it appears I can submit things, here's my rant...
Ed, I'm not against people asking questions about controversial issues or topics that might spark memories of things other people might rather forget (like the post about turning life support off, not so long ago ) as I feel these are general discussion topics. However, posing as someone is distress and calling on others for "sympathy" and "advice", to only have it abused is too much. (see link)
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion267048.html