Cyber Bullying

[LoftyLottie2]

Without naming names, there is a tremendous amount of cyber bullying going on here, especially towards one person. If there is still an Ed, can you please take some notice of this and take some action.

For those of you involved, please stop and think. Your behaviour is like playground behaviour of the worse sort. There are no excuses.

[ummmm]

It will never stop Loftie....

They are as bad as each other though. Insults that are just as bad are thrown back so it can hardly be bullying if it's two sided.

[LoftyLottie2]

Probably, but starting new threads with the intention of bullying is totally childish.

[ummmm]

Childish it is....agreed.

But sometimes funny because some make themselves look mental.

[dot.hawkes]

ummmm, I understand why you have that opiniion, but from my point of view i am retaliating to someone who has been looking at my facebook page and then making personal comments on here about my photos, and insulting comments at that, I do not know anything about no.knowledge and i only make reference to his pertsona and behavior on here, how is what I respond with as bad as the way he gets so personal and nasty?

[LoftyLottie2]

I can't understand why people rise to the bait so readily. But I really don't find it amusing at all. Have had to deal with too much of it it the playground to see adults behaving the same way.

What a waste of time and energy!

[LoftyLottie2]

Dot, you would be wise to ignore it completely. By trying to defend yourself you are bringing yourself down to their level. Rise above it.

[no-knowledge]

Thank you Lofty i have been threatened twice now and it's just not on is it?

[ummmm]

Dot...I know all that because I read it over and over again.

People looking mental wasn't just aimed at you.

You really are too sensitive. Look at the way some posters, including Leggy, behave.

[ummmm]

Lofty....I have told her to rise above it but she won't.

[LoftyLottie2]

To quote my grandfather I would "bang your heads together"

Can't you just treat people on here like you treat people in real life. Or is that how you carry on in real life?

[dot.hawkes]

no.knowledge, anything that i may have said to you on these boards pales in comparison to the way you have freaked me out by your nasty comments about my pictures on my facebook page, which as you know has led me to deleting most of the abers i had on there, that is obviously how very very seriously i took your comments and i did not want you accessing pictures of my grandson and my daughter and my sons, or my nieces and nephews and brother and sisters. I would always worry that your hatred filled bile would spill over into my real life.

[LoftyLottie2]

I didn't mean to start you all off again on this thread. Perhaps you are all enjoying it anyway, but it looks quite nasty to an outsider.

[ummmm]

I think you're over reacting Dot.

You very close to accusing him of something....

[no-knowledge]

ok you tell me miss prim n proper how chicobird2 felt after reading this despicable piece of bullying
this is you bullying her because she is not as articulate as the average poster .
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dot.hawkes
Thurs 05/03/09
01:14 Yo be perfectly and imparyial monty, and knowinf as you do that i always take the time to decipher and interpret your posts, could you not try using sentences and simple syntax and lexis so that you would avoid the misunderstandings? i really do not know why you are not able to just type as you would speak like wot i do, simples

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will you apologise to her?
is this not cyber bullying?

[dot.hawkes]

ummm he has said on here that he has seen my pictures on ab and then made nasty remarks about me, then he has said he went to look again but i had deteted my pictures, i had not, just deleted abers, why would he even bother? It came across from him yesterday that he had tried to access the pictures again, what do you think his motive in that was? he has failed to explain what he was bothering going to look at them for, that is why it made me even more freaked out. It might happen like that to you one day and you may react differently, but i reacted as i did because i am how i am, and noone will be able to explain why he felt it necessary to comment how he did nor why he felt the need to tell me he had not been able to look at the pictures again.

[no-knowledge]

i think it's simple to see that one of us is a p*sstaker and the other has menkle issues and probably needs some anger management treatment!

[dot.hawkes]

no it is not no.knowledge it is asking her to make a better effort to come acoss clearer in her posts, ( I always follow what she says because as i say in that post i make the effort to do so unlike alot of others) and it is also an example of you clutching at straws you obsessed looney

[LoftyLottie2]

Feel free to carry on fighting on my thread :o). May the best man/woman win!!

[dot.hawkes]

you are wrong on both counts, i am perfectly sane and i have no anger issues at all, not now, i did yesterday when i came home from being at work for 10 hours and read that you had posted you were unable to access my facebook page again and you assumed i had deleted my pictures, that made me angry, which i think most people would agree was a valid reaction
why don't you go and look at a middle aged abers photos on ab and then come on here and make rude comments about them?

[no-knowledge]

lol ffs you are unbelievable

it was bullying and everyone can see ..........it was bullying

did you do it to make her feel better about herself then?