Im ugly...

[8myusername8]

How do I become not so ugly?

[RATTER15]

How can we tell without a photo?

[8myusername8]

no no. No photos. heaven forbid. I need advice and tips on how to look good. help :(

[RAV1D]

Look in to your personality and see the real you.

[grasscarp]

I dont know how old you are, but from this and your previous posts I would guess somewhere in your teens. I doubt very much your are ugly. Everyone has good and bad points. Maybe you have some bits of you that are better than others and the trick is to emphasise the good. What is it that really concerns you. If you give us something more to go on we can try and offer something as we are probably mostly a bit older and been there.

[RATTER15]

How can anybody advise you without seeing you, you may well get some excellent advice here from some excellent ladies.

[RATTER15]

I agree with RAVID, but sometimes it really isn't that easy, especially if you are a teen.

[nationsfairylee]

God knows make-up helps tooons! The right hairstyle too. But i can't recommend any looks suitable for you as i don't know your face-shaper hair-type etc. I suggest you read beauty blogs and google beauty and makeup tips. Goodluck! Don't use makeup as a crutch though. Good personality>>>>Good looks.

[welshlibranr]

I very much doubt that you're ugly 8my!.....more likely that you think you are!....

[Iggle Piggle]

Did someone tell you this? tell them not to be so shallow !

Win the lottery - that would make even a pig ugly 4rseh0le like Jeremy Clarkson attractive ....
:-)

[8myusername8]

Im really unconfident, I have wiry dry split end hair, which looks dry and dull. Its long but I never know how to style hair nice so leave it looking like hagrids hair from harry potter. My skin can break out a lot and i have red marks all over my face from this. that no matter how much i cleanse and tone they do not go away. concelear dont hide it (ive tried so many), my eyes are small, im so pale I put albino's to shame. I feel so so ugly and I dont know what I can do to get myself looking and feeling good about myself. I hate being me!

[welshlibranr]

Oh bless 8my, I would invest in some intensive hair treatments to get your hair looking glossy and healthy, and some good skincare products like maybe clinique, not cheap I know, but they do work!.........your eyes can be helped with good make up too!.......You can sort it!........

[8myusername8]

welsh... I use dermalogica but it doesnt clear it up. It stops spots but I have red marks from previous spots that dont ever seem to go away. Thanks I'll defo try the hair treatments :) Thank you

[Jemisa]

How can you say you're ugly? you don't see yourself as others see you.
"Beauty is in the eye's of the beholder"

Lose a little weight.
Put another layer of mascara on.
Some blusher.
A nice pink lippy. - You're done.

Jem

[welshlibranr]

8my!....do that!........will help your confidence, and maybe have a chat with the consultant at the Clinique counter in you local Debenhams store, sure they can help with your skin problems, won't be cheap!......but worth it!....

[grasscarp]

First of all your hair. I dont know where you live but in London there are schools crying out for models. eg. Toni and Guy. They will give you whatever style you want for nothing. They usually advertise on gum tree. Your skin problems will eventually go. I personally had nightmares in my teenage years. There are plenty of concealers and clever foundations now. Maybe a department store can advise, and again many of these will do your make up for you free of charge and give you some samples. Eyes can be brought out and enhanced with mascara, eyeliner etc. Nobody looks that great without make up, but with the right products and a bit of practice it is easy to greatly improve your appearance. If you ever see pictures of stars without their makeup you will see that it is largely cosmetics that achieve the look!

[welshlibranr]

great advice there from grasscarp!..........you see 8my!......you can shine, and I'm sure you will soon!.......take some good advice and you'll be fine!.let us know how you go please!..........

[RAV1D]

To become not so ugly,you got to make your mind know that you ain't ugly because It's lack of confidence in yourself thats making you worrie too much of how you look. take Lady Ga Ga's advice "You was born this way Baby" You sound a nice polite person!

[starone]

RAVID is right - you have to build up your confidence. Beauty starts inside of yourself - think yourself pretty and you will be. And always remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what one person thinks beautiful will not necessarily be another man's ideal. I think some places give lessons on how to apply make-up. If you need that to help you then by all means use it.

[Iggle Piggle]

Sod lady bleedin Ga Ga, she's over hyped. Go with Eminem - don't let anyone tell you you aint beautiful.

[8myusername8]

Thanks everyone. :) I have been looking up hair treatments and skin products and I'll start out trying to become self confident. Thanks so much for everyones suggestions and help. Guess I can change my apperance and work on the inner me to start having a good self esteem. If anyone knows of any good products dont be afraid to suggest them to me. Thanks everyone