Hi lyn - I use two different products. Dax super neat hair creme( has a kind of vaseline look in the tin) The other one - VO5s Extreme style matte clay ( much dryer product)
Both available from Superdrug & possibly Boots.
Bit late I know, but if it's Tiggi Bed Head, then they sell some of their products in TXMax sometimes, worth looking for when you're in there. I paid �5 for Bed Head volumising lotion.