crisis of confidence

[puddicat]

Just watched 10 years younger and what a good job they did with that lady, apart from sticky bumbleton whatitsface comments, she such a poe faced c...w, anyway after getting thru the menopause facially its starting to kick in noticed more thread veins, deeper lines ,bigger flabby stomach, and various veins,bingo wings,treble chins,thinning skin,horrendous toe nails apart from that they still wouldnt use me in the grand experiment i need help!, fashion is a struggle with me now wouldnt say i was ever uber trendy, but havent got the nounce to get things together cos of all the changes that have happened to me, live in 2 pairs of tracky bottoms a sloppy cardigan a sports bra thats to tight,have such lovely underwear upstairs that lies there cos put on weight and i look like to ferrrets trying to out of a sack!!!

[pastafreak]

Oh my puddicat..at least you sound like you have a sense of humour,hun. And i think that is always a good starting point...never take yourself too seriously. Start by trying to pick out your good points......get yourself fitted and get those 'ferrets' something gorgeous to put them in......then with decent under bits you can invest in something other than trackies...some pretty skirts and girlie tops....or well fitting trousers. Spend a bit on several good quality things-then fill out with some fashionable cheap + cheerful-some of it is quite good now. have your makeup done at a cosmetics counter...and if you cant afford a good haircut-you can have it done for free at any college that has hair+beauty courses.