Frantic, Not Stupid.

[fredkins]

Hi there fellow abers, my husband has been diagnosed with off the scale acute anaemia,he is going in today for the camera up and down,no-one knows where he has been losing the blood from any suggestions please, be honest.

[nungate]

Keeping everything crossed for you both Fredkins. Hopefully all will go well and things have been caught in time

[fredkins]

I do not know where the once come from it was not supposed to be there.

[mazie]

Cancer is not the killer it used to be fredkins....I'll be saying a prayer before bed for Mr F..... Sleep well and be positive xx

[tonyav]

Don't worry about that, fredkins, sometimes these bloody computers have a mind of their own.

[fredkins]

I am trying to be positive and be strong in front of him but by myself I am a wreck,a blubbering wreck.

[nungate]

That's why we are here Fred, to help you when you need the support, you have to put on a strong front for Mr Fredkins, but you will need to vent somewhere else and that's where your AB friends come in to help you and support you.

[fredkins]

I know and I thank you all for that.

[tonyav]

fredkins, has nungate says if you need to talk we are here to listen.

[nungate]

that's my girl!

[fredkins]

Oh my goodness I am just breaking my heart crying sobbing I just do not know what to do.

[nungate]

Well Fredkins you just have a good cry, let it all out and trust me you will feel a bit better afterwards.

[tonyav]

fredkins, all you can do is try and stay strong for Mr F and support him, try and think positive thoughts.

[shaneystar2]

Fredkins I've been in exactly the same shoes you're standing in now .
My husband was diagnosed with cancer nearly four years ago .He's still here and has had the all clear recently .It's not always a death sentence .They can do wonderful things these days .Take it one day at a time ,don't give up hope Have a good howl and then chin up ,keep positive for his sake .
Best wishes to you both .

[fredkins]

Thank you everyone I am going to bed now to snuggle up to my husband

[tonyav]

Night night then, fredkins.

[masma]

Sending lots of love to you both and a speedy recovery to Mr F xx

[anneasquith]

oh you poor thing..........im sure you will both be strong for each other, I wish you and mrf all the best for the scan, good news shaney .

[fredkins]

Hi there all you lovely abers,just a little update, it has been a few months since I was on here last about my OH,s cancer of the bowel,well he has had the operation and all has been removed he is currently having Chemotherapy as a precaution and is doing brilliantly.I would like to say a very big thankyou to all of you who supported me on the day I told you all about it.It has been an emotional if not a whirlwind few months.

[fredkins]

I tried posting on here earlier but has not registered or I have not seen it come on the screen is there something wrong?