Drink spiking

[caz21]

Hey guys, not been on here in months! Just got internet at home, so i'm back!

Now, my question is regarding the other night, i went out on a first date with a guy i've known for years, I had three glasses of wine which is minimal for my usual intake, I got really drunk and could see two of my friend who joined us towards the end of the night, i don't remember even now how i got home or what happened that night, but i also was very very sick (which i never am after drinking as much as 10 drinks in one night) and also the morning after i was sick badly again, I even had to take yesterday off work, I went to the doctors who thinks my drink may have been spiked, but the guy i was out with when i spoke to him just thinks i was drunk, the doc told me to report it to the police which i have, but they took this guys number and will probably phone him for a chat which i'm really worried about coz he thinks i'm being stupid as it is!

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? do you think i'm being paranoid? or would you have come to the same conclusion?

Sorry this is quite long x

[sophie_1003]

I don't think your being paranoid because its a real possibility, did u leave ur drink at any time, was it crowded where u were, can ur friend or ur date fill u in on any of the missing details, if yes do their stories match up, just in case it was the guy, even if you have known him for years?

[Goodsoulette]

When I was 18 I used to live in a shared house, with 4 guys. We used to go out as a group once or twice a week and I used to get really, really hammered yet when I went out with my friends this would never happen. One night in an absolutely hammered state, I was apparently hanging over the kitchen table with this one guy (who was a lot older than the rest of us) with his hands up my shirt and he was pulling my skirt up when another housemate walked in. I had had 4 pints of fosters. I to this day remember nothing of this night, the other guy dragged the guy feeling me up out into the garden and well, punched a few times, then came in and put me to bed. I never reported it, or even went to the doctors, despite a couple of the guys I lived with urging me to, I still had a nagging doubt in my mind that maybe just maybe, I was drunk.

A few months late a friend of a friend went on a date with the didgy guy, she came too with him putting his clothes on, she went to the doctors and went to the police and the guy was arrested and convicted of raping her.

I think if he has nothing to worry about it wont bother him. Lets hope nothing untoward was going to happen to you.

[caz21]

Thanks for your answers! The reason i went to the docs and police is because although i cant prove it and will look like a hypochondriac to some, i know how i was and know its not normal! The stories dont quite add up, my friend said i left at 11.10 my mum says i didnt get in till the early hours of the morning! but i dont have a clue! its just strange! although fortunately i dont think anything has happened to me , i think id be able to tell!

My mum thinks the fact the guy i was with is saying no it didnt you were just drunk is odd because he saw i only had three drinks and should know thats minimal, but i doubt very much it is him!

I'm going to buy those tests now anyway, just to be on the safe side!

[Goodsoulette]

did your doctor not test you. The thing about rohypnol is I think it onl;y styas in your system for 3 days.