deathly ill

[conf.4.life]

I dont have an eating disorder or anything but im overwieght and have many other issues in my life that arent going so well...I do things to myself to inflict pain and its sick and i cant get help...Im afriad of wat might happen..wat should i do

[janeo]

Have you seen your GP? He/she will be able to refer you to a psychotherapist.

Good luck.

[yolande]

I am no doc but it sounds to me as if you may be suffering from depression, if these feelings are really getting on top of you and you are self-harming. I think you should make an appointment to see your doctor, who will be able to help you. Good luck x

[Eve]

Speak to your doctor, if you get a choice go for someone you feel comfortable with and take someone with you or write it down to give them if it's difficult for you to talk about.

It's far more common than you'd think and they've seen it all before so don't feel ashamed or embarrassed.

Is there a friend or family member you could talk to about it? If you get into a bad place, sure you'll know what i mean, then there are always people like the Samaritans you can talk you, you're not alone.

http://www.samaritans.org.uk/

Your local casualty dept should also always have someone on hand you can go and talk to if you need it.

Take care of yourself, you can get through this xxx

[nigella]

i agree with yolande, it does seem your depressed and you should start with your GP who can refer you to the relevant people. you need help to tackle the issues in your life in order to resolve them. this could be a dietician, counsellor, support groups etc. the other issues you mention, are they work, family, friend or health related? all of these can be resolved with help, so please dont worry yourself too much, just remember there are a lot of people out there who can help and are willing too, all you need to do is ask! all the best x