the macmillan nurse was the first port of call for our family when my sister was diagnosed with an aggresive brain tumour two years ago, but to be honest, it was the nurses attached to the surgery who we had most contact with. the macmillan nurse organised an electric hospital bed, an electric bath hoist, all the other gadgets which made life a bit easier, but the surgery nurses (i don't know if they were actually 'district' nurses) were there twice a day, every day and gave practical, hands on support to my 3 nieces, as well as totally professional and gentle treatment to me sister, and built up a real rapport with the whole family. my nieces decided they couldn't let my sister go in to a hospice and nursed her at one of their houses. i absolutely cannot fault the system which kicked in when that decision was made, and i don't think my sister or any of our family could have had better treatment or support had we paid millions for it. there was someone there within the hour, day or night, when morphine or anything else was needed.
i hope your friend and her family receive the same care we did salla, be it through macmillan or their surgery.