I am not a physiologist so take my answer as you will.
Cabins are pressurised to about the equivalent to 8,000feet and this results in breathing in 25%less oxygen
Also the humidity in cabins is low and the body, as you quite rightly say, tends to retain fluid by reducing the rate that you produce urine and also by reducing fluid lost by the skin.
If you drink plenty on the plane to combat dehydration,the kidney´s return to normal urine production is delayed until after the flight, when they again "kick in" and secrete urine normally.
Also throughout the flight your O2 levels are lower than normal which again restricts urine formation and again when this returns to normal after the flight you "pee for Africa"
In my opinion the effect of atmospheric pressure on the bladder is minimal as the bladder is protected by strong abdominal muscles.
I look forward to more informed comments.