truly wishing you all the luck and strength you are going to need, BUT when you get through it, it will be the best feeling, you will be so proud of him. Dont forget your aber friends for support and also there is the website famanon.org.co.uk, people in the same boat, all helps you get through each day. Im talking from experience and althought the road ahead is rocky its no worse than what u have already been through, and with the support of a loving family it can be achieved. XX