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A partner 'checklist'?
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What is your checklist - things you look for in a partner before you would consider them seriously? I am interested in what the differences are between men's and women's. For example, I asked my Dad this and he said that he thinks the thing that is most important to a woman is having a "reliable husband". Hahah!
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Ah that's very interesting, thank you, apart from the nice chat in the middle. Glad to have got emails notifying me of all of those.
My reason for posting on here was to see whether men or women mentioned physical appearance in their 'checklist'. It's hard to work out whether the usernames are male or female, but from what I can work out, the only people who required 'slim' were men, except for joggerjayne, and she made a joke about the whole personality thing, showing that she understood that it was funny that she only listed physical attributes! When I looked through a dating page in the local paper similarly, practically all the Men Seeking Women wrote that they wanted someone slim. All the women wrote that they wanted someone kind and with a good SOH. Lucky men, is all I can say! And sad for us women who don't look like models :(
My reason for posting on here was to see whether men or women mentioned physical appearance in their 'checklist'. It's hard to work out whether the usernames are male or female, but from what I can work out, the only people who required 'slim' were men, except for joggerjayne, and she made a joke about the whole personality thing, showing that she understood that it was funny that she only listed physical attributes! When I looked through a dating page in the local paper similarly, practically all the Men Seeking Women wrote that they wanted someone slim. All the women wrote that they wanted someone kind and with a good SOH. Lucky men, is all I can say! And sad for us women who don't look like models :(
To really hit it off with someone, you have to "click" on an emotional level.
You have to make each other "feel good".
But ... to have the opportunity to find out if that happens, there has to be something to get you talking in the first place.
You have to be physically drawn into each other's space.
There has to be that little reason why you find yourself saying to your pals ...
"Do we need another bottle? I'll go and get another one" ...
... "coincidentally" just at the same moment that the guy on the other side of the room "happens" to be going to the bar.
You have to make each other "feel good".
But ... to have the opportunity to find out if that happens, there has to be something to get you talking in the first place.
You have to be physically drawn into each other's space.
There has to be that little reason why you find yourself saying to your pals ...
"Do we need another bottle? I'll go and get another one" ...
... "coincidentally" just at the same moment that the guy on the other side of the room "happens" to be going to the bar.
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