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Thanks all, really helpful advice :) Been googling comfy shoes and had a brainwave and found some of my ex's old orthotic heel inserts (he had dropped arches though so maybe different), he got some new expensive ones from a posh running shop so must be ones from before then, and some comfort really thick insoles. The heel things are a bit grim looking and battered but going to give them a go to see if they make much difference before I buy some :) Don't want to spend a lot if they don't help but if they do then if it makes it less painful and I can get about better then worth it.
Found my old crocs too so might try them tomorrow (with tights!...and long trousers haha) if I can tighten them a bit, see if they make things more comfortable.
Just been on the phone to mum who said Clarks have a sale on and she has seen some she thought about for me (arthritis wise) marked down. M&S have the footglove range too and I've got arthritis friendly work shoes from there before and great as they have wider feet sizes.
Running shoes are a really good idea! Can you still get those "air" like ones (think they are trainers though). Will try a sports shop for some none work shoes.
I'm sure there is a foot hospital at my GP practice, there was a window open with it on when I went for my bloods on Friday so that could be really handy.
Will also give my old osteo a ring, see if he might be able to help as they were great with my back.
No dancing for me at the Christmas do this week!