I am still a Virgin,UPDATE!

[mystress]

Well, I am not any longer!

However I don't think my new b/f and deflowerer will be very acceptable to my parents,who are in their 70's.

Why?

Well, he is an 18 year old skinhead!(you know no1 crop, big boots,braces and tight jeans)

He turns me on, and after waiting all this time I cannot get enough of him.Just how am I going to introduce him to the parents.They are very Liberal,and would see him as a Facist,which he is not.

Help please?

[Morrisonker]

Just take them aside before hand and say someting like 'I know he might look a little (fill in gap yourself) but I want you to get to know him before you judge him.  He makes me happy and that is what should matter to you'.

Good luck!

[kazza12345]

I think give them a chance - parents have a way of surprising you

[jno]

that was quick, was AB advice any help? It was only a week or two ago... so perhaps you needn't think about introducing him to the family just yet.  Give yourself time to get used to him, meanwhile mentioning him to your parents, each time dropping a bit more information about him ('Did I mention he wears braces, just the way gentlemen used to...') and giving them a chance to get used to the idea. And does he want to meet them right away? You might want to prepare him gently for the shock of meeting near-centenarians too.

[ALLO]

wow! i was so proud of you. why did you do it so quickly? about your parents who cares. do you like this guy? if so than it don't matter what they think! it's your life!

[ICEMANSAV]

And they say that its always best to wait... jk.

[Dark Angel]

congratulations!

[secretspirit]

I dreaded introducing my boyfriend to my parents (he had long hair, piercings etc) because they are both 'normal' middle class people. But they surprised me by being really open minded and saw him for the person he is, not what he might appear. We're now married and they love him to bits. If your parents are truly liberal then they should try to be accepting and get to know him before judging although I would warn them first that he appears different to how he is.