is my relationship worth fixing?

[beverly121]

so i am 24 years old and i am in love with this wonderful guy we have been dating for 7 months now and he stays at my house every night.everythnig was perfect.a few weeks ago things took a complete 360.things got weird.he asked me if i even want to be together anymore,the following night we talked and he feels like something is missing and we dont really know anything about each other.he keeps telling me he doesnt want to lose me but at the same time he is being distant.i cant get him to open up.everyday i wake up and wait for him to text while he is at work.my anxiety is through the roof and i dont know what to do...any advice on what to do.

[ojread2]

if you're having to ask on an internet forum ........

Love doesn't feel like this

[tinkerbell23]

He has to learn to open up and you both have to have a long chat...otherwise you will never know...

Goo luck xx

[tenrec]

Maybe he wants to end it but hasn't got the guts. Sorry to be blunt.

[Sqad]

He's lost interest and fed up with you.....it happens all the time.

\\\Is My Relationship Worth Fixing?\\\

No.

[beverly121]

i honestly dont think thats it,he wouldnt keep coming back.

[Clanad]

Pedantically, you mean, of course, that a "few weeks ago your relationship took a complete 180"... meaning going in the opposite direction. Had it taken a 360 it would have finished up going in the same direction as before, with no problems, no?

[tenrec]

Perhaps he wants best of both worlds....

[craft1948]

Personally I couldn't be arsed with someone so insecure..............

[Brinjal]

How old is he? You are very young. You must have a serious talk with him maybe he thinks things moved to fast. This instant and constant communication can be a bad thing. Always wanting to be in touch can be smothering. Spoils the excitement of seeing each other at the end of the day. Try not to be too needy. But ultimately if it is making you unhappy then the relationship is not worth it. After all you can't make someone want to be with you. It has to come from them

[Old_Geezer]

I suspect he doesn't know what he wants, but that does indicate he isn't clearly dedicated to the existing relationship. Ultimately you can only answer your question by the two of you talking it over. And then you go with the flow. If he has started to have doubts it may be a possibility to have a trial separation for each of you to get your thoughts together; but that would be a choice you'd make between you.

[brenda]

Think this relationship is over from his view point. End it now before you get really hurt .Life is honestly too short to try to work out what someone else wants. Put him aside and start over , plenty of other possible b/friends who would value and respect your affections.

[woofgang]

he's getting sex, why wouldn't he keep coming back?

[mrs_overall]

Sounds to me like he wants out but is too cowardly to end it

[bellazella]

Agree mrs o

[ludwig]

It sounds a bit like he's met someone else.