Mothers Ashes..

[hippyhoppy]

We've finally deciced ( nearly three years later!!) that scatter (boo hiss on my account!) and plant a tree in the cemetary..will this involve clergy/costs. should we wait till dad popps his cloggs... and have a 2 for 1 offer (not disrecptable.. just practical)..

[bednobs]

does your cemetery allow you to plant trees?
there wont be any clergy costs, unless you want one to be there

[Barmaid]

You need to check whether they allow the scattering of ashes in the cemetary. Some don't. We discovered this when we wanted to scatter my M-I-L. However, there are ways round it.......

[bednobs]

^^^^ yep, just don't tell them you are doing it!

[Barmaid]

lol, that's the one Bednobs.

[masma]

Can't you scatter them somewhere your mum liked to go and plant a rose tree in your garden?

[jomifl]

Try a green burial ground, I'm sure that they would be very happy for you to plant a tree.

[johnk]

You're supposed to have the lanowners permission to scatter ashes and I doubt if the cemetery will allow a tree, I would go with masma, sounds like the best solution.