what does she want from me?

[the.dr]

I have a female friend from work who I have liked for a long time. We haven't been on talking terms until recently becoz she was was witha guy who i didn't like ( for obvious reasons, being with the woman I love ) She has recently split up with this guy :). We are now talking again but im not sure what she wants from me do you think I am wasting my time or is this girl worht waiting for? Please help I'm desperate and need some advice.

[jno]

You may have made life unnecessarily tough for yourself if you've been refusing to talk to her just because you didn't like her boyfriend (always keep lines of communication open...). So has she now split with Mr Wrong? If so, sure, go ahead. If not, go ahead and talk anyway. What have you got to lose by talking to a woman you like?

[kazzee69]

I think you need to ask her. Be honest about how you feel and ask her straight what she would like in return.

[justineo]

If you love her, she is worth waiting for.