ChatterBank1 min ago
All my own fault....
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Are you quite sure you want to? 'Saying things you don't mean' sometimes just involves accidentally getting words muddled, but it can also imply saying something you do mean but would normally stop yourself saying. If that's what it is in your case - and your gf probably suspects it is - then perhaps your subconscious is trying to tell you something. The fact that it happens a lot does suggest you've got some sort of inner conflict about her. Does 'stopping it from happening again' just mean that you're trying harder to suppress what you really think of her? If so perhaps you really need to sort out what you do think of her and why you want her.
Sorry if I've read this completely wrong and not answered your question properly.