The Decision... No More Attention To Him.

[inamuddle1]

I made a sexy video of me dancing to Grace Jones, I've Seen That Face Before. I made it for the guy I've been seeing. He laughed, called me crazy and when I asked if he liked it he said it was funny. :( Humfffff...

I dont know what kind of response I was looking for but I'm not getting what I want from this guy. I've decided to show him no more attention until he starts showing more of an interest in me.

What do you think? (its hard though, cos I really like him, but no more messages, nothing, thats the decision)

[emmie]

make sure it doesn't end up on facebook, youtube.

[inamuddle1]

Its a good video, and I have all my clothes on. Its just dancing...

[Mick-Talbot]

What do you think?


I dunno, you haven't posted the vid.

[inamuddle1]

and I hope your not calling me a tube, that would be rude.

[emmie]

ok, perhaps he wasn't impressed, some men are like that, comes to think of it so are some women. If he didn't seem interested find someone who is..

[emmie]

not a tube, that's just odd..

[Old_Geezer]

Perhaps you should tell him what response you want before taking the risk of him being honest.

If you are not getting what you want then you have two choices, talk together more so each knows the other, or move on. Maybe if he isn't showing a lot of interest the latter is worth keeping in mind.

[inamuddle1]

humfffff, why do i bother. That is how I feel. Why ******* bother! (sorry guys, im down in the dumps about this) lol

[Mamyalynne]

Well maybe he did not see it as sexy, just a wild and wacky dance.

[cazzz1975]

whats he supposed to do? what response were you looking for?

to be honest I would find it an odd gift..

[mazie]

or perhaps he doesn't like Grace Jones

[Mick-Talbot]

Maybe he hates Grace Jones?

It's not my cup of tea.

[emmie]

who does^^

[inamuddle1]

yeah who knows... It was me trying to be nice. Dont suppose there really is a problem. It's just my feelings are stronger than his. Known it for a while, and I keep trying, and it's the trying that hurts, cause i get nothing back. Hey ho x

[cazzz1975]

then back off a little, it will give you time to assess the situation from a more objective position. he might not be the guy for you, time will tell.

[Mick-Talbot]

You're not a pensioner are you?

that could have a bearing on things.

[inamuddle1]

lol a pensioner lol,,, that would be a funny video :P (no offence) Yes I think I'll back off, that is what my master plan is. If he wants me he will realise and make more of an effort. But personally, I dont think he's ever gonna be the one for me, even though this has been going on for a very long long time. My decision has been made, he gets nothing more from me.

[emmie]

if you are getting nothing back time he was gone..

[mazie]

Mick, behave... I've just spat tea all over my keyboard :o)

[inamuddle1]

I dont mean to blow my own trumpet but I'm a really hot young unique girl, it drives me crazy to think he's not interested in me the way I am about him lol...

hehehe still laughing at the thought of the pensioner dance :P

Thanks Em, your advice is good advice x