recently split with my bf of years and this is one of the reasons
he would go on and on at me in the morning until i showered - i liked to wake up, take my time, eat breakfast, maybe watch a bit of telly - then shower when i felt like it - he had a massive issue with this = he felt i should get out of bed and shower instantly as 'id been sweating all night and just lying in it' (i sweat no more than anyone else, he just meant generally.
so we bickered about this as i didnt like being told what to do and harassed about it
he says he wants a girl who does things like he does ...
when i was at his house i showered most days - except on the the odd day when i couldn't be bothered - but still washed my 'special little bits'
but that, to him, was terrible
at home i have gone 4 days without showering, but generally its every other day, and will often not wash my hair for days, if im not planning to go out anywhere
as someone mentioned i cant see the point in stripping your skin and hair of natural oils every day - its just dries your skin out.
humans have managed perfectly well only washing the areas that actually need a wash daily for a long time
as long as there is no pong i dont see an issue.
my elbows and shins and back and shoulders etc, do not generally get dirty in one day unless i am doing something that would cause it.
his attitude was quite weird and controlling - he seemed to think i am the only girl in the world who does this too - i am a weirdo!
as his first proper girlfriend im not really sure of his basis for comparison, but i couldnt live with someone who tried to run my routines for me
he has a lot to learn, lol