Does This Mean Anything?

[aalyiah20]

ok so the whole time me and whole group of people are listening to this woman talk. And i noticed she never plays with her hair or flips it. But when i look at her and flirt she looks back, then start playing with her hair. Also me and this other girl forgot our papers, so she told this other girl to come get hers and she told me she would bring mines to me and she did. She flirts back whenever i flirt with her.

[factor-fiction]

Is she your teacher?

[boxtops]

where is all this taking place, at work, college, club? I don't read anything into people playing with their hair, in fact it's a habit which really annoys me.

[jno]

it may mean she's flirty. Or it may means she's almost swooning at the sight of you. Perhaps you could ask her to join you for coffee and flirt some more and see what happens?

[aalyiah20]

shes my college instructor

[factor-fiction]

Does she flirt with boys as well?

[Cloverjo]

From what you've said, it sounds as if she likes you. Just do what you're doing and see what happens.

[boxtops]

You would be on very dodgy ground if you start flirting with a college teacher, and so is she - it's a very foolish thing to do, it could risk her career. Ignore it.

[jno]

ah, instructors are trickier. Depending on your ages, you might have to wait and let her do the coffee invitations.

[woofgang]

ok rule one, no flirting with the teacher. Teacher's rule one, no flirting with the students. Just. Don't Do. It.

[anneasquith]

a '' crush'' on a teacher ? perfectly normal.

[Cloverjo]

If she's your tutor, she could be risking her job by getting involved with you. I think I would assume she's just being nice.

[pastafreak]

Uhhh...why are you flirting with your instructor?
Pay attention to her lectures...not what she's doing with her hair. Try it.

[factor-fiction]

Yes I know, anne- but I make sure I don't flirt back

[boxtops]

Of course she's not playing with her hair while she's instructing you all. why would you "look at her and flirt with her"? that's not what the pupil/teacher relationship is about. Don't encourage her.

[aalyiah20]

factor-fiction: no i havent seened her flirt with anyone, except when i look at her and flirt,thats when she'll give me the looks back, and plays with her hair.

[factor-fiction]

Maybe you are making her feel nervous with your flirting, and that's why she tugs at her hair.

[boxtops]

Don't do it, then, aalyiah. No good can come of it, tutors are breaking their rules if they have any sort of relationship with pupils.

[aalyiah20]

pasta freak: i do pay attention to her lectures, i can do two things at once.

[boxtops]

Don't do the second thing - it'll only end in tears. Just listen and work, forget about the flirting. It's not appropriate.

[aalyiah20]

i mean we are both adults,i'll be 21 next month. probably not on campus.but off campus it should be.