ChatterBank1 min ago
Insecure feelings
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.If you see him looking, that means he is not being discreet enough. After all, both sexes look at other people, but it's polite not to make it obvious!
I don't think any other girl would think he is giving her a green light - for a start, not every girl will think your guy is as attractive as you do, but even if she does, if he is faithful, nothing is going to happen.
Try and bring it up in a light-jearted way, but get the message over that you'd prefer him not to peer at other girls while you are around. If all else fails, do the same with the nearest fit guy, and make sure he sees you - then he'll know how it feels, and if he says he's not happy, you can both discuss your feelings and clear the air.
Hi Pinkie,
I agree with all that Puttycake says except for the last para (sorry putty hun!) I don't see the point in playing games when you're in a relationship. Instead of brining it up in a jokey manner, or blatantly ogling guys in his presence, why dont you get a bottle of wine, sit him down and tell him how you feel about this. Let him know you understand that he's always going to look at other girls, as you do with guys after all we're only human but that it bothers you that he seems to be quite blatant about it. It doesn't need to result in a big argy bargy and if he truly respects and loves he will take your feelings on board and will rectify how he goes about looking at other women.
Putty is right though, if he's half the man you think he is it will never go any further than looking, no matter what said girl says to try and pursuade him otherwise.