Help Somebody!

[EAC_Area52]

Every girl that I start to like, I can not start a conversation with her. The most I can say is Hi and just short small talk. The reason I cant start a conversation with a girl that I like is because I get really nervous and my mind just goes blank! Is there any way to stop feeling this way and open up naturally to girls that I am attracted to? Someone please help me!

[Romeo]

Just be nice and don't try to impress. Ask her about herself, the things she likes. Tell her a bit about yourself but don't boast. Do you like films? Get on to the subject of films (always a good conversation topic) and ask her if she's seen ones you have liked. Discuss new films that are soon to be released. Ask her if she would like to see a film along with you and there you go - you have a date!

[meely]

Romeo is totally right. you just need to be your self.don't talk about your self. you need to ask her questions concerning her. about being nervous, some girls think that a nervous guy is cute!

[puttycake]

I think shyness is a much-underated characteristic these days. So many guys come on with really cheesy chat up lines "Was your dad a thief ....." oh purlease!

Women are people too! i am attracted to a man who talks to me, as opposed to my chest, and isn't trying to cut to the chase and find out if he's on for a shag or not!

[RogK]

As Putty says, women are people too, with all the shyness, feelings of inadequacy, tongue-tiedness, nervousness, tendency to go blank, fear of failure and blushing at the drop of a hat that we blokes have. It took me a lifetime to learn that. Once you know it, you're away!

[Scarlett]

Do you have a problem talking to male friends?? There is absolutely no difference. Women don't want to feel like they are being chatted up for a purpose! They would quite like to get to know you as a person, and then if there is any "spark", take it from there. Make friends with women first- involve them in your social life, your hobbies etc. Then you will have things to talk about naturally. We are not a different species that require a different approach!

[twiglet4frog]

big club, back of the head and drag her to your cave!!! works for me everytime!!