Married

[Scarlett]

Is it wrong to fancy a married man? And be good friends with? And text? NOT in a flirty way, but in a good pals way? Even though I do secretly fancy him..?

[honkytonk]

yes it is wrong

[Twincle]

It's wrong and also a sure fire way of getting your heart broken. If he was your husband how would you feel about his texting another woman?? Be very careful of what you are getting into....

[Eels]

I made this mistake once, and believe me it was a mistake.  We are actually still together but starting out on a basis of infidelity undermines the whole basis of the relationship, and makes it so hard to form genuine trust.  I spent a year on medication because I found it so traumatic emotionally, struggling to balance my own feelings and morals, he lost a lot of friends and much as we love each other I'd never recommend it to anyone.  It's painful and scarring to all parties.

[yucca lover]

Yes it is  wrong, while he is giving his attention to you he is not given it to his wife. He is wrong to put you in that position. All you are doing is making him feel good about him self all you are feeling is lust how could you fancy anyone who would do this to his wife .  A wife is for life not christmas.  Find your own man

[jacey]

I agree with everyone here, I think you, must also know that it is wrong, deep down, to have asked the question in the first place. To my mind, being unfaithful,  is not just having sex with another person. But the sharing of intimacy !

[CheekyChops]

Yes it is wrong.  You have admitted that you secretly fancy him so deep down, you must be hoping for more than 'good pals'.

As has already been said, how would you feel if you discovered your husband had been texting another woman?  Even in a 'good pals' type of way, would you be happy about it?  NO!  Of course you wouldn't!

Leave the bloke alone.  Even if he is responding to you or even being more forward than you, HE IS MARRIED.  No good can ever come of this, someone will end up being very hurt.

[Thanatos]

You can't help who you fall for, but DON'T take it any further.  If any relationship is to develop, he would have to leave his wife first.  And then the trouble would began.  If you can forget about him, then do so.

[triona]

no way.....if he is a good guy he will set u straight hes the one whos married not you so dont feel guilty! if hes a bad guy then have fun ;)

[bumblebee24]

no way! your doing nothing rong hes the 1 whos married if hes a good guy he will be honest and set  straight if he is a bad guy...enjoy it ;)