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Well,i have tried to spice things up. The other night i came down dressed in lovely lingerie and heels, he was sat on his laptop. I sat next to him, and a few minutes later he got up and started packing his laptop away and before leaving he said make sure you switch everything off. Nothing else! then in bed, once i had changed into my pjs, feeling humiliated, he was pottering about looking in the mirror etc, i just lay in bed with my kindle. He was talking to me normally, but failed to notice i dressed up for him. I even bought him a sex toy and that made him laugh said he isn't into that. i felt rubbish.