Relationship Advice

[chrisuk013]

I've been seeing a girl for around two months now and things appear to be good, we get on well and all is good in the relationship. Her two girls like me and vice versa, I stay over regularly and we've been in a few little family weekends away, she has introduced me to her close friends and her family know about me(meeting them soon). We went to a place of interest with her two girls and some other of her friends and she tagged them all in on Facebook except me? When I questioned her about this she said 'Facebook isn't the place where she wants people to find out about me' so I said 'is it because you have ex boyfriends or secret admirers on there and you don't want them to know i exist?' She replied 'no'... Am I over reacting?

[Zacs-Master]

Yes. She obviously has a sense of decency, unlike some Facebook users.

[Sqad]

Yes...I agree with Zac......yopu atr not THAT important in her life yet.
Take what is on offer for the moment and see if eventually you get "tagged" (whatever that means)

[Sqad]

Sorry about the typos.

[chrisuk013]

I guess, I'm the who is with her and I should just concentrate on that, it just annoys me when she is texting and my mind is set to thinking that it's to other men..

[Sqad]

\\\ it just annoys me when she is texting and my mind is set to thinking that it's to other men..\\\

Bit if jealousy eh! chris........it happens to us all.

[ummmm]

Completely over reacting.

[Prudie]

Yes it's highly likely she has an ex-partner or her children's father who she doesn't want to read what she's up to on FB. You are over-reacting. I agree with Zacs, she's a mother first and shouldn't be pasting what is still a very early relationship on the internet.

[Pete65]

Yes.

[elliemay1]

Zacs and Prudie are 100% correct!

[Gavmacp]

Yes! I do not like Facebook and it is not a place where I would put my personal stuff on.

[woofgang]

I agree with the others.
"Don't live your private life on Facebook" is excellent advice.

[bednobs]

in all fairness, things are going very fast (in my opinion anyway lol) some single mums would not have let you even meet their children in 8 weeks, let alone stay over and go away wtith them a couple of times as a family!
I thnk she is very sensible not to plaster it all over the web

[Greedyfly]

No one wants a jealous partner

[Pete65]

No, Greedyfly, they don't.
What next, looking in her handbag.
She can do better!

[Sqad]

C'mon folks, don't be so hard on chris. He has been going out with this woman for a couple of months and is wondering why he has not been mentioned in her Facebook comment.
He is a bit jealous that's all........I would be and so would many others.
For God's sake, if he had been a couple of ABers that i could name, we would hear about every move of every date that they entered upon.

Give him a chance.....all he wanted to know was if he was over-reacting.

[Kimdottir]

Yes, I think you have nothing to worry about. If she was refusing to tell her friends and family too, maybe.... But I think she's doing the right thing.

[DaisyNonna]

Chris, look at it from her point of view.
You have a relationship with her and her girls, you know her close friends, you are known to her family.
You are in a good place.
Do not spoil it for yourself just because she does not want the world and his wife to know everything.
She sounds to be very sensible and caring of her girls and you.

[chrisuk013]

thanks for the advice guys, I really appreciate it a lot..

I am meeting her parents next week for a sit down meal and I did ask the question whether she just let anyone meet her parents and she replied no!! we have just spent a really nice weekend together. I need to have a little more confidence about me I think? I do get a little jealous but i am only human at the end of the day..

[DaisyNonna]

Hope the meeting goes well for you Chris.
Bring unsure and being jealous are not the same thing.