Ex boyfriend worry

[Cockney_si]

My girls ex has been bad to her since I started seeing her. They have had a kid together. I have since had words with him about his attitude towards me even though I'm taking on his son and being there for both of them is a hard task.

He seemed to back off for a week or so.

Now I hear he has been round to pick up his son to take him out and he's boasting to my girl how the next person he sleeps with is gonna be her and he'll give her �50 to sleep with her next weekend.

I think in his mind it is a power struggle....

Is he only doing this to wind me up and to see if she tells me about it?

Does he want me to confront him mano au mano?

[andy hughes]

He is winding you up - best thing is to listen to your girlfriend when she needs to talk, and ignore what he says - it's just blowing smoke.