Why me

[ellen_16]

Last month i posted this question - http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Question140 119.html - about me and my brothers friend. Well i asked my brother and he said that he wouldnt mind Ryan and I being together... and Ryan said great. Since then we have been texting just never had the chance to see each other until last night when i went to a party and he was supposed to give me a ride home but bluntly said he couldnt. Why is he doing this, is he trying to break my heart? Will i ever find a boyfriend?

[busted5]

Hi ellen I think that Ryan seems a bit of a **** ****. I know this seems harsh, but maybe he sad you 2 couldn't be together because ur bro as an excuse, and now that excuse has fallen through he is stuck. I think you should talk to him about this. Ask him what he really feels for you and why he is playing you hot and cold. Say you are sick and tired of being messed about by him and need to kno if he really does like you or if hes just messing you about.

[cat woman]

Dear ellen, Sorry to hear that this boy is messing about with your head, thats just it, he's just a boy! he probably wants his cake and wants to eat it too, what i mean is that he's playing the field so to speak and doesn't seem to want to be tied to one girl.  You dont want to make yourself available for him when he clicks his fingers when he's not got anything else planned, play him at his own game.  You are still a very young girl and have alot of time ahead of you to find Mr Right, enjoy your freedom and youth get out more with your girl-friends, have a laugh with them,  You are going to kiss an awful lot of toads before you find your prince, this boy is just one of the many toads you will kiss, just put it down to experience.  All the best. xx   :-)