is this abnormal

[pepepe000]

i have a very beautiful ,good and faithful wife but i always want to look for casual sex when she is just away. are there other people like me, is this normal

[don1]

pepepe, I hope your wife finds a proper man

[jno]

it seems to be not uncommon... talking to men, it may even be widespread, for Darwinian reasons to do with ensuring your posterity by spreading your seed as widely as possible. What most people do, however, is resist the urge. Loving their wives/husbands, they don't want to do anything that would cause them pain. Ask yourself: how would I feel if my wife did this?

[qapmoc]

pep,  do you mean when she goes down to the local shop for 15 minutes, in that case probably a quick bang in the B*lls would solve your problem when it arrises (no pun intended)  as the effects take about 15 minutes to wear off.

[Cypruslover]

If what you have asked is true, you should be ashamed of yourself. Lets hope your wife sees sense, and wakes upto you, and what you are doing. You could pass any number of disgusting diseases onto her........

[charliebaps]

hold on - he said he always wants to look for casual sex - he doesn't say he does it!

maybe pepepe could clarify it for us before you string him up.

many people look but don't touch. 

[Hermia]

A male friend of mine who has trouble being faithful said it's nothing to do with how lovely the wife/girlfriend is it's just the fact that it's a different woman he's never slept with before. He said he's slept with women who are complete dogs compared to his wife.

If pepepe000's wife is as beautiful and good as he says then I'm sure she will have no trouble finding another chap if the marriage does go wrong.

[Chessman]

Its all a question of willpower, Its normal for a man to look at another woman, maybe even to flirt, but if you value what you have, you don't touch, simple as that

[Mistopheles]

From a woman's point of view, I understand what you mean. I adore my partner but if I'm away from him, I get very lonely and crave male company (emotional and physical). I recognise that acting on these feelings would lead to the loss of my wonderful man though, so I do stuff to distract myself - ring a friend, watch a film, ring my partner (he's had a few 1am calls!) or go to bed early. I hope you do the same. It's normal, but acting on it could destroy your relationship. Please don't put yourself or your wife through that.

[portocat]

you sound like a really horrible person.  I hope your wife realises she has made a mistake marrying you and finds someone beautiful, good and faithful to spend her life with instead of you.  then you can be free to have as much meaningless disease ridden sex as you want.  good luck.