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Her kids really love her , they have no idea of her habit. Things have improved from a few months back when she hardly saw her kids for days on end. The other siblings do help out a bit but they have their hands full with their own children. In face there is resentment that her 3 kids get so big a share of 'Grandparent time' and feel the others miss out. Then again one of her siblings is so disgusted with her drug habit he refuses to speak to her.
On the good side my daughter has a job in the school kitchens starting when school returns in September.Both I and my wife have repeatedly told her that her drug habit can not continue once she starts work. The opportunity is too good to jeopardise, a job that fits in with the kids school time and holidays.
I have registered a Crimestoppers ID and had already reported two of her previous drug dealers anonymously, both have stopped supplying! I am getting information on the dealer she uses now, I have enough to report him but I am trying to find out who the next one up the supply chain is so I can get rid of him as well.
I am hoping that if and when the current dealer goes under she will have the brains to take the hint and get out of the habit
( as the Nun said to the Vicar! )