Relationship

[Jselby28]

Is it cool for your wife to be calling other guys baby, Hun, Sweety? I addressed this with her before and she said she would stop..but she still did it! And I'm sure if I were calling other girls Sweety and baby, she would get ***.

[Zacs-Master]

Cool, man. Some chicks are just, y’know, more ‘outgoing’ than others. Trying to get her to suppress that side of her personality will just get her more p***** in the end so you just gotta chill and live with it,bro.

[murraymints]

lol zac sweetie... agree.. I hate the "hun" stuff but do tend to go with the sweetie..darlin' myself .. unless you are in my naughty book that is ! only a side to her personality..get over it !

[Old_Geezer]

I take that she's always done this. In which case you knew what she was like. Probably just being friendly; you ought not be trying to change that. Relationships is about give & take, not about having everything the way you prefer. Let it go, try not to let it bother you and have a minor issue become a major wedge between you.

[Zacs-Master]

;-) I love being called ‘hun’ by a laydee, makes me go all warm and wibbly wobbly inside, it does.

[murraymints]

does it hun ? ;0) x

[rowanwitch]

Sounds like it is a harmless habit she has got into. The problem is it makes you feel insecure, that is your problem not hers and something you need to deal with.

[woofgang]

try it and see. If she genuinely doesn't mind then you will have to decide whether it's a dealbreaker for you. If she does mind then you will have something to discuss with her.

[Zacs-Master]

Wibble wobble.

[murraymints]

:0) ..lol.. x

[Sqad]

She sounds a bit of a slapper, I would say, Mrs sqad or her friends would never use those terms.
"Hun?" can't stand that word and it is commonly used on AB.

[Cloverjo]

Some people just use terms like that without thinking. It used to annoy me when OH called me 'dear', but other women 'darling'. It's just something he says. Sometimes he even calls men 'darling' without meaning to.
Don't worry about it, jselby.

[Sqad]

Cloverjo....."darling" doesn't seem to be an issue with the OP...his wife uses.....Baby.....Hun....Sweety.......those words seem to resonant with the OP as they would with me.
"Darling" depending upon how, when and to whom it was said, could be acceptable...........but the others...common and unacceptable.

[Sqad]

resonate.^^^

[MallyJ]

Probably only does it because she can't remember their names.....

[LadyCG]

I do agree with Sqad at 08:49.

[Hopkirk]

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[roopower]

Personally, I hate it but it seems to be what a lot of people do these days - male and female. I don't think it particularly means anything, It's just taken over from ducks, dearie and the like. I was called sweetie in the local shop by a lad young enough to be my grandson.

[maggiebee]

Old neighbour of mine called all women "doll". I hated it, but met him the other day after a couple of years and he still called me it.

[hc4361]

A slapper, Sqad?

[Sqad]

h.c.....I agree perhaps a bit "heavy" but you know where i am coming from.