Fight

[iiLeopard]

So there's this classmate who is I think 2 years younger than me, or maybe 1 and a half, I don't know and he's '' bullied '' ( our classmates say he is a girl and *** like that) and even a lot of times''attacked '' ( not attacked like a real fight, just games ) by other classmates and he gave me a punch in the arm one day for no reason, we started to fight, I did a lot of shots to his body. 2 days later at the end of the classes, me and my deskmate were the only one left in the class and we had to put the laptop in our closet so it wouldn't be stolen by strangers. That guy and 2 of my friends came back in class to see if there was anybody left . When he saw us he said '' 2 girls '' so i called him a girl too and a pussy. After I finished with the laptop, he was right in front of me and gave me a hard hook to the jaw without me knowing, I didn't even want to fight him so I was surprised he punched me . After that we '' fought '' and to mention ,I had my winter long coat on me and I was distracted and angry cause he gave me that unexpected punch and got a lot of hits in the face, even head. Let me mention I'm also overweight by like 5-10 kgs, so not that much, and he's taller than me and thin, so he has an advantage. What should I do tomorrow ? Should I punch him like that too or what should I do ?

[melv16]

Dunno. I lost the will to live after reading the first sentence:-)

[retrocop]

Just keep out of his way.

[iiLeopard]

retrocop yes that's what some friends told me but he's 2 years old younger than me like i'm 15 and he's like 13 plus he's called names by other classmates and it would *** my reputation if i got '' beaten '' by this guy

[iiLeopard]

and I think the guys will consider me a '' girl '' if I don't get revenge on him.. I don't even know what to do

[woofgang]

I think it would be good and adult to go to the boy and make friends. He's been bullied by your own admission and no one has done anything about it so its not surprising he suddenly lost it. Of course, on the other hand, if you want to be someone who spends your entire life seeking approval from other people and being scared to go your own way then you can start practicing now.

[calda49]

I can see you don't want to blow this up into a major thing but, as an ex-teacher I honestly think you ought to have a quiet word with someone on the staff, both for your sake and the boy who is being bullied. I am sure your school will have an anti bullying policy. But if you chose a teacher you can communicate with, (your class teacher or one who takes you for another subject) and ask to speak in confidence I am sure they will respect this and offer relevant advice.

[Baldric]

Have you considered Growing Up?
Just a thought :o)

[Mamyalynne]

Keep your eyes peeled for AB Member RainbowRafiki, very similar scenario at her school too - you could compare notes.

Good luck.

[MallyJ]

Start ignoring fools and their stupid behaviour and start concentrating on your school work and homework...that way you will be likely to get a good education and be able to use it to go far in your future...quite honestly this nonsense of punching each other may well lead to someone getting seriously hurt and ending up with a conviction which will ensure that person is at a serious disadvantage in the future. Adopt a much more mature attitude and see just how much you can achieve. Such childish nonsense won't get you anywhere.

[iiLeopard]

Thank you all for the answers.

[DarceyK123]

Ha ha Mamy, i thought it was Rainbow when i read the question

[RainbowRafiki]

Maybe apologize and see if he needs anyone to talk to about the bullying. I've been bullied and it was hard to find someone to trust. If he sees you are being nice to him, he may open up and it could stop him from committing suicide.

[scorpiojo]

Who mentioned suicide?

[woofgang]

nobody on this thread

[iiLeopard]

Rainbow the thing is, he's ''bullied '' like he likes it when they punch him or call him names, not bullied like you see in the movies or real life . I don't know, it's weird, and he acts cocky too so ye he's not that sad innocent kid who is bullied. He even picks on my best friend

[TonyV]

I think you are a joke

[iiLeopard]

TonyV lol get the *** out dude if you are not here to help

[kvalidir]

The greatest cowards, insecure people, and those terrified and hurt can act the most braggish and brattish, so his behaviour is nothing to really go by. Just try to avoid further confrontations and if you feel string enough try to do something unexpectedly nice for him, and ignore your idiot friends who clearly base other people worth on similar pseudo masculine bull, you don't need to behave a certain way to save face, there is no face to save.

[TonyV]

Ok Leo just an opinion lol

[bainbrig]

Amazing punctuation, spelling, grammar. Suspiciously so. Try throwing in a few ‘likes’ and ‘know what I means’, but make sure you don’t spell ‘em, like, right.