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Has anyone managed to move on from a cheating spouse?
Ive recently been breaved within the past month (very close) and then found out my partner has had sex once with someonelse.......... in our home.
Im grieving BOTH situations, not sure if I am numb , id like to try to move on, currently feel as if I can.... this may change when I am thinking straight.
Ive recently been breaved within the past month (very close) and then found out my partner has had sex once with someonelse.......... in our home.
Im grieving BOTH situations, not sure if I am numb , id like to try to move on, currently feel as if I can.... this may change when I am thinking straight.
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The part I thought I would have liked sent to Me was how gorgeous she was with a nice heart and he would make her happy and she shouldnt put her nice curvy body down!!!!!
Eh. Shes the same size as me. Im a stone up or down at times but classic hourglass shape.
He said he was filling her head with alot of shhhhhht.
Why? Even if i believe that & not sure that I do? Why would he do that to HER?
The part I thought I would have liked sent to Me was how gorgeous she was with a nice heart and he would make her happy and she shouldnt put her nice curvy body down!!!!!
Eh. Shes the same size as me. Im a stone up or down at times but classic hourglass shape.
He said he was filling her head with alot of shhhhhht.
Why? Even if i believe that & not sure that I do? Why would he do that to HER?
Sincerely thank you to each and every one of you for the talk.
As I said I have kept it close to my chest at home.
He is a nice person with a few issues! One of those people who folk say “hes well meaning/nice guy/didnt have a great start in life/ he does love you/“ etc etc?
Do you know what I mean? X
As I said I have kept it close to my chest at home.
He is a nice person with a few issues! One of those people who folk say “hes well meaning/nice guy/didnt have a great start in life/ he does love you/“ etc etc?
Do you know what I mean? X
He sounds like a bit of a prat.
I'm not saying it's happened this time but sometimes when you discover an instance of infidelity there are many more as-yet undiscovered instances.
I would start with the assumption that he has to go, then see if you can work out why on earth you should stick with him, rather than the other way around. Precede each possible reason with the phrase "This man who has betrayed me" to test it out, e.g. "This man who has betrayed me, I would like him to be the father of my children because I'm in my late thirties and I might not be able to find somebody better in time" ...
I'm not saying it's happened this time but sometimes when you discover an instance of infidelity there are many more as-yet undiscovered instances.
I would start with the assumption that he has to go, then see if you can work out why on earth you should stick with him, rather than the other way around. Precede each possible reason with the phrase "This man who has betrayed me" to test it out, e.g. "This man who has betrayed me, I would like him to be the father of my children because I'm in my late thirties and I might not be able to find somebody better in time" ...
I am sorry for what you are going through Glitterywings. However, I would suggest the following.
Do not react as yet. You are hurt and angry. Hurt people hurt.
I think that you have recently suffered a great loss and this is part of the problem. But the problem goes deeper than that and it is lack of communication. And I mean real effective communication.
My suggestion is that you seek professional couples counselling. It may help you decide whether the relationship is worth saving. And if it is it may help you unlock the tools that you already have to enable your relationship to not only survive but to flourish.
Do not react as yet. You are hurt and angry. Hurt people hurt.
I think that you have recently suffered a great loss and this is part of the problem. But the problem goes deeper than that and it is lack of communication. And I mean real effective communication.
My suggestion is that you seek professional couples counselling. It may help you decide whether the relationship is worth saving. And if it is it may help you unlock the tools that you already have to enable your relationship to not only survive but to flourish.