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Things For Mother To Do!
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My dad died a couple of months ago and my mum is alone for the first time in 55 years (she’s 80). She’s doing her best to keep busy at home, mostly cooking and housework but she gets very sad on rainy and cold days. I live miles away and want to send her something from Amazon to keep her busy. She already has jigsaws. Any ideas would be great, maybe good films? Or anything that would be a nice surprise to get in the post?!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.sudokus and Netflix are good time-fillers (as I well know) but maybe she could do with something bigger than that - after all, she's lost the mainspring of her life. If I lost my OH I wouldn't plan on filling the gap with sudokus.
Does she have any interests from the past that she'd like to take up again? Would she like to travel? (Not necessarily abroad.) Do something with U3A? Work in a charity shop? These may perhaps be a bit much for an 80yo; then again, she might appreciate something that gives a focus to her life rather than just passes time.
Does she have any interests from the past that she'd like to take up again? Would she like to travel? (Not necessarily abroad.) Do something with U3A? Work in a charity shop? These may perhaps be a bit much for an 80yo; then again, she might appreciate something that gives a focus to her life rather than just passes time.
I have my dogs registered with The Cinnamon Trust who are a charitable organisation for the older generation. I am sure they must foster dogs out as well as looking after them when you are ill or die. Early days yet for your Mum but keeping busy is a start. I agree she must get out more otherwise she will get depresssed. I meet lots of nice people when I am out with my two dogs and we quite often have a natter.