Ladies..when Did You Stop Denying Your Husbands Sex?

[nailit]

Weve all been there...
And why would you complain when he gets its elswhere
(Which he does)

[Canary42]

Don't you mean start denying ?

[Bobbisox1]

Eh?
Maybe in your world , not here :0(

[Prudie]

I've had 3 husbands and I've never denied any of them sex, even though two of them were useless at it.

[schippiegalette]

Yeh nailit maybe in your world, not mine.

[237SJ]

^ LOL

[Neveracrossword]

'We've all been there'? Not in my world...

[snags]

''two of them were useless at it''

Individually or working as a team?

[Bazile]

Prudie

//I've had 3 husbands and I've never denied any of them sex, even though two of them were useless at it.//

Useless at it ? -lol

What was the criteria by which you judged those poor blokes ?:-)

[Mozz71]

Just that question on it's own clues me in on why Nailit's partner(s) wouldn't give him sexy time.

[Neveracrossword]

The question is odd, though - when did we stop denying ... that implies we did deny and then changed our minds...

[237SJ]

"We've all been there. No we haven't. Maybe if we were married to you though ..

[Prudie]

Based on whether they were able to ensure I enjoyed it too (or even cared if I did).
I am being a bit unfair to the first, we were kids and divorced by 21 - he had the PE problem but he could have tried harder :-)

[maggiebee]

Ah, but what if the man can't "get it up". Why should he complain if his partner looks elsewhere (which I did).

[Sqad]

Your'e on fire tonight Nailit LOL.
I am not a wife but have some comments based on a lifetime of experience.

If I WAS a wife and knew that my husband was getting his sex elswhere, then I have a decision to make.......whether to ditch him or stay with him because of the lifestyle that he provided....holidays, cars, money, clothes and even better if I didn;t like sex either.

That is the dilemma for the women e.g Coleen Rooney et al.

[anneasquith]

When did your ex wife start nailit ?

[237SJ]

Sqad - you're joking. Nowadays we don't need men to provide for us. Not cars, houses, holidays etc.

[Sqad]

237...True........but many women/wives do.

[237SJ]

Well, that's their loss

[Sqad]

237....true again, but it is not an uncommon situation where the wife is not interested in sex, she may or may not indulge, but what she does like is the lifestyle that he provides.
The fact that he is having sex elsewhere is no big deal to her.
The continentals seem to have solved this problem by having mistresses, which is generally accepted as "the norm" but not so apparently in the UK.