So as a male, who has only achieved orgasm via masturbation (due to me being a virgin) I know that an orgasm for me is just like a sudden burst of pleasure that remains around my testicle area and a bit in the penis, and the feeling is over in around 3-4 seconds. From what I’ve heard the female orgasm is far more intense. Ladies, what does orgasm feel like for you? Is it similar to how I described mine is, or different? Thanks
I think the reason I’m 25 and never kissed a woman is because since graduating uni in 2019 I haven’t been around any women my age, when I was at uni all the girls in my class had boyfriends, when I was at school I wasn’t allowed a girlfriend at that age
Tom. Maybe you should find a woman you like, play the romantic guy,
fall in love and you will maybe want to go further. Then you can ask her "how was it for you?"
Tom. Do you not work, go out? So many places to meet women but I rather think a guy of 25 would know where - work, pubs, clubs, discos,
Sport leisure centres, the library, on the street where you live, online, etc. etc.
Unless they are inebriated, most men start off with platonic talk - you gotta make an impression.
Moorea- I’m not sure how old you are? I don’t mean any offence in that btw, but what you’re describing is cold approaching, approaching women you don’t know and starting a conversation. Maybe in the 80s, 90s, maybe 00’s that would have been a good idea, but in todays climate with the whole ‘me too’ movement, a lot of young women don’t like being approached randomly by men unfortunately and it runs the risk of being branded as something you’re not. I know it’s illogical but unfortunately that’s the world we live in now. Btw I know not all women are like this, but I don’t know who is and who isn’t
Moorea- back in 2019 I actually approached 4 women in the gym just to ask if I could join in on the machine as I also wanted to use it (this is common practice in gyms) and all but one just said “oh you can have it” and walked off. The one who stayed made sure to stand a good six feet away and went on her phone, signalling she was not interested in talking
There was another Aber a few months ago with exactly the same problem. I wonder if he found the love of his life, or at least a lovely girl to have fun and a relationship with?
Tom; you don't have to 'approach' women. Just treat them as human beings that might be interesting to talk to. Do you worry like this about talking to men?