helpy!

[Aim1509]

Heya!

I went out with this guy for 7 months.. but before that we were friends for 3 years, after 5 months we fell out and didnt speak as mates again. Around school he gave me random abuse. I moved on but deep down there was always a part of me that liked him. About a year after not talking, he started texting me, and we gained trust again, his best friend who was a girl got insulted by me, and we fell out again. A month or so went by, i got a love statment from him saying how he wanted to start again after exams, (about 5 months time.) We were talking more and more and he asked me to is house, things went well but it felt a little odd but iwe both agreed it felt right, two days later i got a message saying that he changed his mind and he didnt like the fact i didnt like his friends. I said i wouldnt chose 2 hang around them, but i wouldnt stop you from seeing them, every excuse under the sun came along to put it off, we dont talk now .. what happened?

[raysparx]

Seems to me he is very immature,it could be commitment frightened him,have you still got strong feelings for him? or would you just like to remain friends ? whatever it is if you see him or know where he is you MUST talk ,it is no good bottling things inside,and remember what will be will be, I am a strong believer in that, when I was 23 I split from a girl I had been with for 6 years,we were apart for 14 months,when we met up again for a friendly drink we both realised we should be together that was in 1971 we are still together,it may work for you it might not,But I wish you happines,health and love whatever the outcome and please talk