What attracts a woman to a man? AHHH,..so so many things: Charm, the way they stand, the way they look at you, a wink a smile, a head nod, their gaw line, their arms, the way they touch you (even if your just friends). When a guy places his hand on the small of your back..aahhh. It's all about CHARM. Then after that its the personality stuff. I dislike men that come across to needy, and too desparate. The GAME of dating is so much fun, its fun to try and win someone over. I'm a Scorpio, and even though Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, I have always had a sexy but very SLY style of flirting....that often gets me into trouble. Just looking at a person can make them melt, if you do it right and your timing is good. But Women like when a man takes over in a masculine way. This means be charming and nice....BUT not TOO nice. Sometimes you have to play hard to get. I love finding new ways to turn my boyfriend on just with charm and femininity- not including actual sex. DMAXXX- Why do you think you have been scorched?